In order to get a girls attention you need to stand out from the
mass. People judge by the looks and you have only seconds to demonstrate
that you are a man of style.
So, first and foremost you have to look at
the way you dress:
Is your dress boring or is it interesting and unique? Of course, it
doesn’t make sense to dress like a gigolo, because you have to feel
comfortable in your clothes.
It’s quite helpful to ask your friends about your outfit (but please
don’t be offended if they are critical, criticism will help you much
more than a simple “Yeah, you’re the man!”). It’s even better if you
find some girls to ask. Simply tell them you want to change your style a
bit – girls love all kinds of fashion questions. You can also ask girls
on the street how they like your outfit and where you can buy some cool
stuff.
If you’ve read the book called “The Game” by the writer and pickup
artist Neil Stauss (aka Style), where he describes the pickup community,
you are familiar with the “Peacock Theory”. If not, here is an
enlightening extract:
“Peacock theory is the idea that in order to attract the most
desirable female of the species, it’s necessary to stand out in a flashy
and colorful way. For humans… the equivalent of a flashy peacock tail
is a shiny shirt, a garish hat, and jewelry that lights up in the dark… “
That means you can get a girls attention and get her interested in
you simply through the way you dress. You think wearing stuff like
feather boas, cowboy hats or eye-catching jewelry is silly? Maybe it is.
But think about this: How many times have you been approached by
someone on your outfit? Not that much? Never? Well, that’s what this
stuff is good for – it allows women (mainly shy women) to start a
conversation with you. If you have a cool answer and can demonstrate
higher value you will most likely get her number. At the same time you
demonstrate a high self-confidence wearing this stuff. And women love
confident guys.
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